Unsolicited Phone Calls Led to Felony Stalking in North Carolina

In this case, the victim, a 75-year-old widow, began receiving repeated, unsolicited phone calls from a fellow church member
November 18, 2024
Unsolicited Phone Calls Led to Felony Stalking in North Carolina

In North Carolina, repeated, unwanted phone calls can lead to felony stalking charges, especially if they cause the victim significant emotional distress or fear for their safety. A recent case out of Pitt County and heard before Marvin K. Blount, III, Senior Resident Judge, illustrates just how serious unsolicited phone contact can become when it crosses into the realm of harassment. State v. Smith, 904 S.E.2d 434 (N.C. Ct. App. 2024)

In this case, the victim, a 75-year-old widow, began receiving repeated, unsolicited phone calls from a fellow church member, Roger B. Smith. After a single conversation where the victim provided her phone number, Smith began calling her multiple times a day, leaving numerous voicemails and making inappropriate comments, including one where he claimed that “God told him to ask her out and to take care of her ” and clearly thought they should be together. Despite the victim repeatedly telling Smith to stop, the calls continued daily for over six months. She was not interested in a relationship with him and provided him her phone number originally as she thought he had questions about community college classes she was taking.

What made this situation particularly frightening for the victim was the nature and persistence of the calls. Smith’s comments about wanting to have sex with her, coupled with his constant contact, deeply unsettled her. She testified that the harassment caused her such distress that she couldn’t sleep and was too afraid to leave her home. She even had to seek psychiatric help, and her daily life drastically changed—she stopped attending church and school, stayed indoors, and made her home into a fortress by locking herself in by 4 p.m. every day. She put all the food and other necessities she envisioned she would need in the back of her home and never went to the front again after evening commenced.

The court ultimately found Smith guilty of felony stalking because his repeated phone calls, along with his refusal to respect her boundaries, caused significant emotional distress for the victim. Her actions—changing her routine, seeking psychiatric care, and reporting the harassment to both her pastor and the police—demonstrated to the court that she was genuinely terrified for her safety.

The fact that it took months and finally a police visit for him to cease calling her is indication of serious intent. She asked him to stop calling, she rarely to never answered the phone, asked her pastor to speak with him, and sought law enforcement assistance. Yet, he still debated to the court whether or not his behavior, daily and over months, could lead a reasonable person to be afraid or have substantial emotional distress? Honestly, let the crazy roll. Imprisonment is not good enough for Mr. Smith, without significant and long term mental health treatment and monitoring at his own expense. Remember that to have a felony conviction, he had to have a prior stalking conviction, so he did not learn from his first bought of bad behavior.

This case serves as a sobering reminder: unwanted phone calls, especially when persistent and intrusive, can have serious legal consequences, including felony stalking charges. Victims should take action if they feel harassed, as North Carolina law protects against such severe invasions of privacy and emotional security.

One last thought on this case from a legal and moral perspective – nothing in the case raised the issue of mental competence of Roger B. Smith nor did the case note his age. The court (or the defense attorney) may want to check to see if Mr. Smith needs a legal guardian or has some other health concern (dementia or alzheimer disease) which could cause significant behavior modifications or cause him to lack mens rea. If this was a civil case, which the elderly woman is entitled to take out and would likely get damages from Mr. Smith, a motion for a psychological evaluation may occur. Also, please call your elderly family members and check in on them to ensure no one is taking advantage!

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

North Carolina trial judges are cautious about digital evidence. Screenshots can be fabricated, modified, or taken out of context. To get digital evidence admitted under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901 (Authentication), you must establish its authenticity, completeness, and chain of custody.

Raw Screenshot vs. Forensic Capture

Steps for Lawful, Admissible Digital Evidence Preservation

  1. Capture Complete Screenshots with Context: Do not crop out battery bars, network indicators, contact names, dates, or timestamps. Capture the full conversation thread leading up to and following the key statement.
  2. Export Native Files and Metadata: Where possible, export thread logs directly to PDF or native format (e.g., .eml files for email, .vcf or full carrier logs for SMS). Ensure EXIF metadata (embedded time, location, and device data) remains intact on digital photos.
  3. Obtain Certified Carrier Records: Request official call detail records and text message transmission logs from cellular service providers via subpoena or formal discovery requests.
  4. Maintain a Detailed Evidence Log: Record the date, time, device used, and method of capture for every piece of digital evidence preserved.

Digital Capture Methods Matrix: Legality & Admissibility in NC

The following matrix summarizes common methods of capturing digital evidence in North Carolina family law proceedings:

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Evidence in NC Divorce

Is it legal to screenshot my spouse’s texts in NC?

Yes, it is entirely legal to screenshot text messages sent directly to your device or sent within a group thread that includes you. Because you are a party to the communication, you have lawful access to the messages. To ensure admissibility in court, capture complete conversation threads that display the sender’s phone number or contact header, alongside full date and time stamps.

Can I use Life360 data in a NC custody case?

Yes, Life360 or Apple Find My location data can be used in North Carolina custody cases if the account was established mutually and you accessed the location data legally through your own authorized user profile. Location logs can help corroborate or refute claims regarding travel times, missed custody handoffs, or presence at unapproved locations. However, if you secretly log into your spouse’s private account after separation to track them, that data becomes inadmissible and exposes you to legal sanctions.

Is Ring camera footage admissible in NC family court?

Yes, Ring camera and video doorbell footage is routinely admitted in North Carolina family court to document custody exchanges, property damage, or domestic disturbances. Because outdoor entryways and driveways do not carry an expectation of privacy, footage captured by property-mounted cameras is lawful. To introduce Ring footage in trial, you must provide the raw video file, preserve the embedded metadata, and verify the time and date of the recording.

What happens if I put spyware on my spouse’s phone in NC?

Installing spyware, keyloggers, or hidden tracking software on a spouse’s phone is a crime in North Carolina under the NC Wiretap Act (N.C.G.S. § 15A-287) and Computer Trespass laws (N.C.G.S. § 14-458), as well as federal wiretap statutes. Any evidence obtained through spyware is strictly inadmissible in family court. Furthermore, the spouse who installed the spyware faces potential felony charges, mandatory payment of opposing attorney fees, and severe loss of credibility with the judge in custody and financial rulings.

How do I prove digital evidence is authentic in a North Carolina court?

Under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901, you prove digital evidence is authentic by demonstrating that the evidence is what you claim it to be. This requires showing a clear chain of custody, providing unedited files containing native metadata, cross-referencing screenshots with official cellular carrier billing statements, or presenting witness testimony from the individual who captured or received the transmission.

Take Control of Your Digital Strategy Today

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