Waneta Ellis Named 2025 Top Litigator

When something needs to be done for a client—when a child’s safety hangs in the balance, when a father needs his voice heard, when the courthouse is closing and your filing isn’t complete—Waneta Ellis stands in the gap.
January 26, 2026

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STANDING IN THE GAP

Waneta Ellis Named 2025 Top Litigator

The Woman Who Chases Down Judges (Literally)

There’s a hashtag floating around in our internal recognition system: #Can’tRunFromWaneta.

It exists because CEO Janet Gemmell once recognized Waneta Ellis for “running down a judge and keeping the courthouse open.”

That’s not a metaphor. That’s not hyperbole. That’s Waneta.

When something needs to be done for a client—when a child’s safety hangs in the balance, when a father needs his voice heard, when the courthouse is closing and your filing isn’t complete—Waneta Ellis stands in the gap. She doesn’t wait for someone else. She doesn’t make excuses. She runs – or maybe she just drives a bit over the limit to get there?

Which is why we are proud to announce that Waneta E. Ellis, Partner at Cape Fear Family Law, is the co-recipient of our 2025 Top Litigator Attorney Award, sharing this distinction with fellow courtroom warrior Granger Benson.

Waneta Ellis Named Top Litigator

First in Her Family

Here’s something you should know about Waneta Ellis: she is the first person in her family to graduate from college.

Not just college—she went on to earn her Juris Doctorate from Elon University School of Law, concentrating in trial advocacy because she loves being in the courtroom. She made it possible by working full-time while completing her studies through distance learning. No one handed her anything. She built it herself.

Studying Under a Chief Justice

During law school, Waneta’s studies took her to Ireland, where she concentrated on Constitutional Law and was privileged to study under United States Supreme Court Chief Justice John Roberts.

Waneta is deeply cognizant of the protections afforded to each person by the United States Constitution. She cares about how personal freedoms and rights are applied individually to each of her clients. She stands for her clients’ rights.

Guardian Ad Litem: Where It All Began

Before law school, Waneta began her legal career as a volunteer Guardian Ad Litem in Wilmington for children who needed an advocate. She served abused, abandoned, and neglected children by advocating for their best interests inside and outside of the courtroom.

Waneta holds the strong belief that children are the most integral part of the family unit. Children are often placed in the middle of parental conflict. Due to that middle status, shielding each child from harm—and educating parents on how to do so—is a key part of her practice.

Waneta Ellis Top Litigator

The Courtrooms of Pender and New Hanover

Waneta loves practicing in the courtrooms of Pender and New Hanover counties. She also serves families in Brunswick County. Her reputation in these courts is built on something that cannot be bought or faked: integrity.

Here’s what Waneta knows to be true: If a judge knows you will be honest no matter what, they are likely to trust you—and then they can better listen to the evidence.

This is why Waneta has zero tolerance for clients who lie to her. Not because she’s rigid. Not because she lacks compassion. But because her reputation in court is the tool she uses to help as many families as possible. Any lie told to her by a client stands to undermines that tool. Every truth builds it stronger.

2025: A Year of Excellence

The numbers behind Waneta’s 2025 Top Litigator Attorney Award tell the story: Powerful courtroom results. High trial preparedness. Consistent litigation wins. Strong billable performance.

Janet noted that Waneta not only had her case list printed—she also had her overdue task list printed. #BeastMode. She was celebrated for having the best Case Status Review Meeting metrics in the office.

This recognition came through the firm’s rigorous Case Status Review process, where Azalea Pinter and Adrian Davis track KPIs and measure performance against the highest standards. Waneta didn’t just meet those standards. She set them. She continues to be number one in following the systems and having her cases ready and in order.

Home: Dixon, Jeremy, and Family Dinners

When Waneta isn’t in the courtroom, you’ll find her raising her son Dixon, being married to one of her best friends Jeremy, and spending time with her blended family.

Family dinners together mean everything to her. Those dinners aren’t just about food—they’re about connection, about presence, about being there for the people who matter most. This gives her a unique perspective on family law. She understands that custody isn’t just about schedules and legal frameworks. It’s about who sits at the dinner table. It’s about finding the right fit for each family’s unique situation.

She also helps provide care for her mother, who lives with her. Three generations under one roof. That’s not just family—that’s a way of life.

When she’s not working or with family, you might find her at the beach (which is always calling), or spending time with her dog Lady Jane. Another pup Lucy and her beloved cat Finn recently crossed the rainbow bridge, a loss that reminds us that Waneta’s big heart extends to every member of her family—four-legged and otherwise.

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Standing in the Gap

There’s a phrase that captures Waneta Ellis better than any title or award: standing in the gap.

It means being the one who shows up when there’s a void. The one who runs down the judge. The one who stays late on her own time to find a supervised visitation provider for a teammate’s client. The one who gives out her personal cell phone number to high school mock trial students because future lawyers need mentors.

Waneta E. Ellis is our 2025 Top Litigator Attorney Award co-recipient (and you can imagine who Granger Benson is really chasing & looking up to at times). But more than the numbers, more than the metrics, more than the wins and the hours—Waneta represents something this firm values as one of its core values: integrity.

She tells the truth even when it’s hard. She fights fair even when others don’t. She advocates for children because someone has to. And she stands in the gap—every single day—for the families who need her most.

Congratulations, Waneta. You’ve earned every bit of this.


“Waneta understands the interplay of family devotion and personal achievement when it comes to being a working, yet devoted parent and pa

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How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

North Carolina trial judges are cautious about digital evidence. Screenshots can be fabricated, modified, or taken out of context. To get digital evidence admitted under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901 (Authentication), you must establish its authenticity, completeness, and chain of custody.

Raw Screenshot vs. Forensic Capture

Steps for Lawful, Admissible Digital Evidence Preservation

  1. Capture Complete Screenshots with Context: Do not crop out battery bars, network indicators, contact names, dates, or timestamps. Capture the full conversation thread leading up to and following the key statement.
  2. Export Native Files and Metadata: Where possible, export thread logs directly to PDF or native format (e.g., .eml files for email, .vcf or full carrier logs for SMS). Ensure EXIF metadata (embedded time, location, and device data) remains intact on digital photos.
  3. Obtain Certified Carrier Records: Request official call detail records and text message transmission logs from cellular service providers via subpoena or formal discovery requests.
  4. Maintain a Detailed Evidence Log: Record the date, time, device used, and method of capture for every piece of digital evidence preserved.

Digital Capture Methods Matrix: Legality & Admissibility in NC

The following matrix summarizes common methods of capturing digital evidence in North Carolina family law proceedings:

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Evidence in NC Divorce

Is it legal to screenshot my spouse’s texts in NC?

Yes, it is entirely legal to screenshot text messages sent directly to your device or sent within a group thread that includes you. Because you are a party to the communication, you have lawful access to the messages. To ensure admissibility in court, capture complete conversation threads that display the sender’s phone number or contact header, alongside full date and time stamps.

Can I use Life360 data in a NC custody case?

Yes, Life360 or Apple Find My location data can be used in North Carolina custody cases if the account was established mutually and you accessed the location data legally through your own authorized user profile. Location logs can help corroborate or refute claims regarding travel times, missed custody handoffs, or presence at unapproved locations. However, if you secretly log into your spouse’s private account after separation to track them, that data becomes inadmissible and exposes you to legal sanctions.

Is Ring camera footage admissible in NC family court?

Yes, Ring camera and video doorbell footage is routinely admitted in North Carolina family court to document custody exchanges, property damage, or domestic disturbances. Because outdoor entryways and driveways do not carry an expectation of privacy, footage captured by property-mounted cameras is lawful. To introduce Ring footage in trial, you must provide the raw video file, preserve the embedded metadata, and verify the time and date of the recording.

What happens if I put spyware on my spouse’s phone in NC?

Installing spyware, keyloggers, or hidden tracking software on a spouse’s phone is a crime in North Carolina under the NC Wiretap Act (N.C.G.S. § 15A-287) and Computer Trespass laws (N.C.G.S. § 14-458), as well as federal wiretap statutes. Any evidence obtained through spyware is strictly inadmissible in family court. Furthermore, the spouse who installed the spyware faces potential felony charges, mandatory payment of opposing attorney fees, and severe loss of credibility with the judge in custody and financial rulings.

How do I prove digital evidence is authentic in a North Carolina court?

Under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901, you prove digital evidence is authentic by demonstrating that the evidence is what you claim it to be. This requires showing a clear chain of custody, providing unedited files containing native metadata, cross-referencing screenshots with official cellular carrier billing statements, or presenting witness testimony from the individual who captured or received the transmission.

Take Control of Your Digital Strategy Today

Navigating digital evidence in a divorce or custody dispute requires technical precision and experienced legal counsel. One wrong move can turn valuable evidence into a legal liability.

Protect your rights and secure your family’s future with our actionable digital evidence resources:

  • Download the Homewrecker Evidence Guide
  • Learn exactly how to audit your digital privacy, disconnect shared family accounts safely, and archive text messages for your legal team without violating state or federal privacy statutes.

Ready to discuss your case directly with an expert? Schedule a Confidential Consultation with Board-Certified Family Law Specialist Janet L. Gemmell at Cape Fear Family Law Today.

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Janet Gemmell
Practicing law for over 20 years may have caused Janet some gray hairs, but she remains young at heart, probably because she loves what she does. Janet's focus is to work with clients building new lives after relationship turmoil and although it is hard work, she finds it utterly rewarding. Such work and experiences gives Janet a ton of insight and along with her legal knowledge (afterall she is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist) she is able to get to the heart of any legal matter quickly in order to start helping clients find resolutions and to get their lives back on track.

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