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Question: Dear Cape Fear Family Law: My spouse and I separated about six (6) months ago. I did not hire an attorney, but I am about to run out of money and my husband is not willing to give me any for my monthly bills? Is it worth getting an attorney? -No $$$ to...
June 4, 2014
No Dollars To Waste

Question:

Dear Cape Fear Family Law:

My spouse and I separated about six (6) months ago.  I did not hire an attorney, but I am about to run out of money and my husband is not willing to give me any for my monthly bills?  Is it worth getting an attorney?

-No $$$ to Waste

Answer:

Dear No $$$ to Waste:

It is vitally important for people that are about to separate, or are just separated, to hire an attorney as close to (or before) the day they start living separately.  This is the best way to keep your legally expenses down.  That said, yes you should at least visit with an attorney to see what your rights are.  Post separation support, alimony, and child support may be options for you to get your spouse to assist in your support and the children’s support, if you have children.

No, you don’t have any money to waste…who does?  If you don’t go and see an attorney, you may have lost money instead of wasted it.  Don’t you think it is worth a consultation fee of between $150.00 and $300.00 to find out if you are eligible for support?  Choose wisely!

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Janet Gemmell
Practicing law for over 20 years may have caused Janet some gray hairs, but she remains young at heart, probably because she loves what she does. Janet's focus is to work with clients building new lives after relationship turmoil and although it is hard work, she finds it utterly rewarding. Such work and experiences gives Janet a ton of insight and along with her legal knowledge (afterall she is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist) she is able to get to the heart of any legal matter quickly in order to start helping clients find resolutions and to get their lives back on track.

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