Sarah Winkler Named 2025 Most Supportive Team Member

Every photographer knows the secret to a perfect image: it's not just about what you see. It's about light, timing, patience, and an eye trained to notice what others miss.
January 21, 2026

MOST SUPPORTIVE TEAM MEMBER AWARD
THE STEADY HAND

Sarah Winkler Named 2025 Most Supportive Team Member

Capturing What Matters

Every photographer knows the secret to a perfect image: it’s not just about what you see. It’s about light, timing, patience, and an eye trained to notice what others miss.

Sarah Winkler brings that same rare sensibility to her work at Cape Fear Family Law. For just over four years now, she has been the steady hand at Wilmington headquarters—catching details before they become problems, guiding colleagues before they get lost, and quietly ensuring that every case moves forward the way it should.

We are honored to announce that Sarah L. Winkler is the recipient of Cape Fear Family Law’s 2025 Most Supportive Team Member Award—recognizing the person who serves as the firm’s go-to collaborator, who provides high-value support to attorneys and staff alike, and who consistently closes the gaps that would otherwise let things fall through.

The Art of Seeing Everything

There’s a reason Sarah is known as the firm’s “Divorce Queen.”

Sarah has single-handedly saved countless divorces from mistakes that would have derailed or delayed them. She catches the missing signature, the misfiled document, the deadline that’s about to slip. She sees the whole picture—every case, every status, every next step—and she makes sure nothing escapes.

When it comes to automations and systems, Sarah has been Janet’s partner in building the workflows that help the firm operate at scale. She learned. She adapted. She embraced it all. That’s not someone who’s afraid of technology. That’s someone who understands it.

21 Years, Then a Leap of Faith

Sarah spent 21 years and 5 months at her previous firm—up until the day her former boss retired. Two decades of loyalty, dedication, and consistency. When that chapter closed, she didn’t just find another job. She found a bonus family member or two.

“It’s like a family here. I love it,” she says. She started in January 2022, and in less than four years, she has become the anchor of the Wilmington office. And somewhere in there? She earned her paralegal certification. Because she wasn’t going to just coast on two decades of experience. She wanted to be officially, certifiably excellent.

Sarah Winkler Photographer

What Her Colleagues Say

  • Ashley Owens: “For being the real MVP.”
  • Granger Benson: “For keeping all of my divorces moving along.” #DivorceQueen
  • Kara Tucker: “Thank you for teaching me stuff and guiding me every day.” #knowledgeable
  • Allie Moore: “For helping me secure a HUGE WIN in my most difficult case. I wish I had 1,000 points!”
  • Janet Gemmell (CEO): “You’re a godsend.”

The Technology Guru

Her previous firm was “super old-school—everything was pen and paper.” But when Sarah came to Cape Fear Family Law, she didn’t resist the change. She embraced it. E-filing? She mastered it and now teaches others. Automations? She’s Janet’s right hand in building them. The firm recognized her repeatedly as a #technologyguru—and that’s not a hashtag given lightly.

2025 Most Supportive Team Member

A Wilmington Native with an Artist’s Eye

Sarah is Wilmington through and through. Born and raised here. Graduated from New Hanover High School. Built her career in this community. Comes to work every weekday in Wilmington now and marvels at the changes over her lifetime.

And on weekends? She’s at Wrightsville Beach catching the sunrise. Or Carolina Beach catching the sunset. Sometimes both on the same day.

“I love nature photography and landscapes,” Sarah says. That photographer’s eye—the one that catches the perfect light at dawn—is the same eye that catches the details in every case file, every document, every filing deadline.

Sarah Winkler

The Perfect Frame

In photography, composition is everything. The best photographers know how to frame a shot so that every element works together to create something meaningful. Sarah Winkler does that for Cape Fear Family Law.

She frames the work so that nothing falls through the cracks. She positions herself wherever she’s needed most. She catches the details that make the difference between good and excellent.

Sarah L. Winkler is our 2025 Most Supportive Team Member.

She is knowledgeable. She is special. She is exactly where she belongs—at and as the heart of this firm, holding everything together with the same quiet excellence she brings to every sunrise she captures. Congratulations, Sarah. Thank you for everything you see—and everything you do.

📷 #DivorceQueen #MVP #technologyguru #knowledgeable #WilmingtonOffice4Lyfe

“It’s like a family here. I love it.”
— Sarah L. Winkler


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How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

North Carolina trial judges are cautious about digital evidence. Screenshots can be fabricated, modified, or taken out of context. To get digital evidence admitted under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901 (Authentication), you must establish its authenticity, completeness, and chain of custody.

Raw Screenshot vs. Forensic Capture

Steps for Lawful, Admissible Digital Evidence Preservation

  1. Capture Complete Screenshots with Context: Do not crop out battery bars, network indicators, contact names, dates, or timestamps. Capture the full conversation thread leading up to and following the key statement.
  2. Export Native Files and Metadata: Where possible, export thread logs directly to PDF or native format (e.g., .eml files for email, .vcf or full carrier logs for SMS). Ensure EXIF metadata (embedded time, location, and device data) remains intact on digital photos.
  3. Obtain Certified Carrier Records: Request official call detail records and text message transmission logs from cellular service providers via subpoena or formal discovery requests.
  4. Maintain a Detailed Evidence Log: Record the date, time, device used, and method of capture for every piece of digital evidence preserved.

Digital Capture Methods Matrix: Legality & Admissibility in NC

The following matrix summarizes common methods of capturing digital evidence in North Carolina family law proceedings:

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Evidence in NC Divorce

Is it legal to screenshot my spouse’s texts in NC?

Yes, it is entirely legal to screenshot text messages sent directly to your device or sent within a group thread that includes you. Because you are a party to the communication, you have lawful access to the messages. To ensure admissibility in court, capture complete conversation threads that display the sender’s phone number or contact header, alongside full date and time stamps.

Can I use Life360 data in a NC custody case?

Yes, Life360 or Apple Find My location data can be used in North Carolina custody cases if the account was established mutually and you accessed the location data legally through your own authorized user profile. Location logs can help corroborate or refute claims regarding travel times, missed custody handoffs, or presence at unapproved locations. However, if you secretly log into your spouse’s private account after separation to track them, that data becomes inadmissible and exposes you to legal sanctions.

Is Ring camera footage admissible in NC family court?

Yes, Ring camera and video doorbell footage is routinely admitted in North Carolina family court to document custody exchanges, property damage, or domestic disturbances. Because outdoor entryways and driveways do not carry an expectation of privacy, footage captured by property-mounted cameras is lawful. To introduce Ring footage in trial, you must provide the raw video file, preserve the embedded metadata, and verify the time and date of the recording.

What happens if I put spyware on my spouse’s phone in NC?

Installing spyware, keyloggers, or hidden tracking software on a spouse’s phone is a crime in North Carolina under the NC Wiretap Act (N.C.G.S. § 15A-287) and Computer Trespass laws (N.C.G.S. § 14-458), as well as federal wiretap statutes. Any evidence obtained through spyware is strictly inadmissible in family court. Furthermore, the spouse who installed the spyware faces potential felony charges, mandatory payment of opposing attorney fees, and severe loss of credibility with the judge in custody and financial rulings.

How do I prove digital evidence is authentic in a North Carolina court?

Under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901, you prove digital evidence is authentic by demonstrating that the evidence is what you claim it to be. This requires showing a clear chain of custody, providing unedited files containing native metadata, cross-referencing screenshots with official cellular carrier billing statements, or presenting witness testimony from the individual who captured or received the transmission.

Take Control of Your Digital Strategy Today

Navigating digital evidence in a divorce or custody dispute requires technical precision and experienced legal counsel. One wrong move can turn valuable evidence into a legal liability.

Protect your rights and secure your family’s future with our actionable digital evidence resources:

  • Download the Homewrecker Evidence Guide
  • Learn exactly how to audit your digital privacy, disconnect shared family accounts safely, and archive text messages for your legal team without violating state or federal privacy statutes.

Ready to discuss your case directly with an expert? Schedule a Confidential Consultation with Board-Certified Family Law Specialist Janet L. Gemmell at Cape Fear Family Law Today.

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Janet Gemmell
Practicing law for over 20 years may have caused Janet some gray hairs, but she remains young at heart, probably because she loves what she does. Janet's focus is to work with clients building new lives after relationship turmoil and although it is hard work, she finds it utterly rewarding. Such work and experiences gives Janet a ton of insight and along with her legal knowledge (afterall she is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist) she is able to get to the heart of any legal matter quickly in order to start helping clients find resolutions and to get their lives back on track.

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