Two States, Three Kids & One Moving Truck—Relocation Custody in Real Time

Follow family‑law litigator Matt Geiger as he unpacks a true‑to‑life NC relocation case—three kids, two dads, and one stressed‑out mom—while teaching the legal playbook that keeps families whole.
September 15, 2025
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Mattew Geiger
Easygoing yet razor-sharp, Matthew Geiger is known in Brunswick and Columbus counties as the attorney who brings calm to complex cases. With a background in criminal law, he’s no stranger to challenging situations, and he uses that experience to guide clients through complex family matters. Matthew’s laid-back demeanor puts clients at ease, but don’t let his calm fool you—he’s a strategic powerhouse who prepares meticulously for each case. For Matthew, it’s all about creating a clear path forward so clients can focus on the next chapter of their lives.

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