Mary Jane Is Addictive

Why do so many people who are users of marijuana want us to believe that it is not addictive. We can consume...
August 17, 2020
Mary Jane Is Addictive

I know a couple of young adults, in their early 20s. They are “consumers” of marijuana. One of them watches the Joe Rogan podcast and uses marijuana rarely, at parties, and believes it is fine for use. One has stopped using completely. The last two smoke or dab regularly. It is interesting to note the difference between their behavior and what their future trajectory in life appears to be from my seat in life.

Does marijuana addiction exist?

Some resources start out slowly by discussing that you can develop “problem use” such as the National Institute on Drug Abuse, which does also go on to talk about the addictive nature of cannabis. Cannabis Use Disorder, was introduced as a diagnosis under the DSM-V as noted by Verywellmind who also went on to note that this was a change from the definitions and diagnoses available under the DSM-IV and allows for both problems with use and drug dependence typically found in addiction. So for this blog post, yes, marijuana is addictive.

One other question is why do so many people who are users of marijuana want us to believe that it is not addictive. We can consume high quantities of soda or coffee, knowing that caffeine is an addictive substance and have no social stigma. Some people consume alcohol in moderation, often daily, or drink alcohol socially on occasion and have no negative consequences, even though we all would recognize that alcohol can be addictive. Why is it that marijuana must be non-addictive in the dialogue of the day, instead of the fact that some can use with little consequence while others become addicted?

Maybe there is a worry that marijuana will not be treated like alcohol or caffeine, but instead like its former associates heroin or cocaine? I think that is a very real concern.

How do we deal with addiction?

But back on track here, if marijuana is in fact addictive, which it is, how do we deal with addiction itself? Are we back into the 28 day treatment cycle or can marijuana be a substance that is treated differently by the mental health community? Instead of vilifying cannabis growth, distribution, taxation, and use, are we all on the cusp of differing norms and acceptability? Clearly not, since this substance still remains illegal and tied to its former associates (named above) in federal law.

Finally, when you find a family member, co-worker, or friend that is consuming cannabis in large quantities, unmotivated to engage in life, and claims to “need marijuana” to do anything in life, what do you do? Do you stage an intervention and demand treatment? Who is providing this treatment and who will pay for it? Or do you instead throw up your hands and take a puff? I for one am not confused. I see the harm cannabis use and distribution is causing in the segment of society that is already over victimized or engaging in self-victimization. When you are unmotivated, and smoking marijuana which causes some paranoia, it is much easier to claim that your problems are someone’s fault, an ideology problem, or some institution’s fault instead of stepping up for personal responsibility.

Marijuana is addictive and those with symptoms of cannabis use disorder should be assisted and helped, even on the medical side, as our public dialogue and discourse lags behind the popular media’s highlighting marijuana as safe and effective. Let’s get ready people for the next big topic in the media – who pays for the treatment of those suffering from terminal stupidity, whoops I meant cannabis use disorder. Seriously though, let’s stop highlighting the use of marijuana and allowing the same as a cure all when it is a recreational drug. Whether you compare it to alcohol or heroin, someone is going to pay the price for the treatment costs and insurance companies and private citizens need to be prepared for this growing epidemic.

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

North Carolina trial judges are cautious about digital evidence. Screenshots can be fabricated, modified, or taken out of context. To get digital evidence admitted under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901 (Authentication), you must establish its authenticity, completeness, and chain of custody.

Raw Screenshot vs. Forensic Capture

Steps for Lawful, Admissible Digital Evidence Preservation

  1. Capture Complete Screenshots with Context: Do not crop out battery bars, network indicators, contact names, dates, or timestamps. Capture the full conversation thread leading up to and following the key statement.
  2. Export Native Files and Metadata: Where possible, export thread logs directly to PDF or native format (e.g., .eml files for email, .vcf or full carrier logs for SMS). Ensure EXIF metadata (embedded time, location, and device data) remains intact on digital photos.
  3. Obtain Certified Carrier Records: Request official call detail records and text message transmission logs from cellular service providers via subpoena or formal discovery requests.
  4. Maintain a Detailed Evidence Log: Record the date, time, device used, and method of capture for every piece of digital evidence preserved.

Digital Capture Methods Matrix: Legality & Admissibility in NC

The following matrix summarizes common methods of capturing digital evidence in North Carolina family law proceedings:

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Evidence in NC Divorce

Is it legal to screenshot my spouse’s texts in NC?

Yes, it is entirely legal to screenshot text messages sent directly to your device or sent within a group thread that includes you. Because you are a party to the communication, you have lawful access to the messages. To ensure admissibility in court, capture complete conversation threads that display the sender’s phone number or contact header, alongside full date and time stamps.

Can I use Life360 data in a NC custody case?

Yes, Life360 or Apple Find My location data can be used in North Carolina custody cases if the account was established mutually and you accessed the location data legally through your own authorized user profile. Location logs can help corroborate or refute claims regarding travel times, missed custody handoffs, or presence at unapproved locations. However, if you secretly log into your spouse’s private account after separation to track them, that data becomes inadmissible and exposes you to legal sanctions.

Is Ring camera footage admissible in NC family court?

Yes, Ring camera and video doorbell footage is routinely admitted in North Carolina family court to document custody exchanges, property damage, or domestic disturbances. Because outdoor entryways and driveways do not carry an expectation of privacy, footage captured by property-mounted cameras is lawful. To introduce Ring footage in trial, you must provide the raw video file, preserve the embedded metadata, and verify the time and date of the recording.

What happens if I put spyware on my spouse’s phone in NC?

Installing spyware, keyloggers, or hidden tracking software on a spouse’s phone is a crime in North Carolina under the NC Wiretap Act (N.C.G.S. § 15A-287) and Computer Trespass laws (N.C.G.S. § 14-458), as well as federal wiretap statutes. Any evidence obtained through spyware is strictly inadmissible in family court. Furthermore, the spouse who installed the spyware faces potential felony charges, mandatory payment of opposing attorney fees, and severe loss of credibility with the judge in custody and financial rulings.

How do I prove digital evidence is authentic in a North Carolina court?

Under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901, you prove digital evidence is authentic by demonstrating that the evidence is what you claim it to be. This requires showing a clear chain of custody, providing unedited files containing native metadata, cross-referencing screenshots with official cellular carrier billing statements, or presenting witness testimony from the individual who captured or received the transmission.

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Janet Gemmell
Practicing law for over 20 years may have caused Janet some gray hairs, but she remains young at heart, probably because she loves what she does. Janet's focus is to work with clients building new lives after relationship turmoil and although it is hard work, she finds it utterly rewarding. Such work and experiences gives Janet a ton of insight and along with her legal knowledge (afterall she is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist) she is able to get to the heart of any legal matter quickly in order to start helping clients find resolutions and to get their lives back on track.

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