5 Factors to Relocate Kids

I think this ruling provides a lot of guidance when it comes to trying a relocation custody case. The court made it clear that ...
April 2, 2020
Tuel vs Tuel Ruling | 5 Factors to Relocate Kids

At the trial court level, the case was heard in Johnston County, North Carolina, by the Honorable Addie H. Rawls. The Defendant in this case appealed the trial court’s Order for Permanent Child Custody and Temporary Child Support which granted the Plaintiff primary physical custody and permitted her to move with their two children to Indiana.

On May 16, 2017, the Plaintiff mother filed a complaint for child custody and left the marital residence with the children the following day to go to her parent’s home in Rushville, Indiana. The mother and the minor children stayed with her parents in Indiana for three months. On August 21, 2017, the parties entered into a temporary child custody consent order which provided that mom and the minor children returned to North Carolina, pending a permanent custody order being entered.

On July 5, 2018, the court held a hearing on permanent custody. The court heard evidence and testimony by both parties which showed that the parties had marital issues which were only exacerbated by the birth of their children. The court also heard evidence that the mom of the minor children had a strained history with her parents which was documented in journal entries, online posts, and records from her therapy sessions. In fact, mom ceased all contact with her parents shortly after the birth of the parties’ first child in 2014. In May of 2017, mom reinitiated contact with her family and after a visit from her mother that month, filed the complaint and relocated.

Permanent Custody and Temporary Child Support

After hearing the evidence at trial, the trial court entered an Order for Permanent Custody and Temporary Child Support on March 18, 2019. The order granted primary physical custody to mom, permitted her to relocate with the children to Rushville, Indiana, and granted dad secondary physical custody.

The Apppeal

In his appeal the dad argued that the trial abused its discretion in its order by concluding as a matter of law that granting mom primary custody would be in their best interests, despite: (a) failing to make adequate findings of fact addressing the factors in Ramirez-Barker v. Barker, relevant to determining custody upon relocation of a parent to a foreign jurisdiction; and (b) otherwise making findings supporting this conclusion that were not supported by competent evidence.

The Court of Appeals looked to how the trial court applied the Ramirez-Barker v. Barker factors which are as follows:

  • The advantages of the relocation in terms of its capacity to improve the life of the child;
  • The motives of the custodial parent in seeking the move;
  • The likelihood that the custodial parent will comply with visitation orders when he or she is no longer subject to the jurisdiction of the courts of North Carolina;
  • The integrity of the noncustodial parent in resisting the relocation;
  • The likelihood that a realistic visitation schedule can be arranged which will preserve and foster the parental relationship with the noncustodial parent.

Findings

The court found that both mom and dad were fit and proper to share custody and that the children would thrive under each of their care. However, the court didn’t explain why primary custody with mom would be in the children’s best interests other than in reference to the mother’s family support network in Indiana. Amongst the findings of fact, the trial court relates the effect of relocation to the best interest of the children only a few times outside the context of mom’s family support network.

The court also went on to note that several of the findings of fact were inconsistent. For example, the trial court found that the mother’s mental health issues are partially caused by being the primary caregiver, yet did not explain how these issues would not be exacerbated by giving her primary custody and putting them into contact with her parents whom she herself had a strained relationship.
Ultimately the court found that the trial court’s findings did not support its conclusion of law giving mom primary physical custody and permitting relocation would be in the children’s best interest. Therefore, the trial court abused its discretion and the custody order was vacated and remanded for entry of a new order.

I think this ruling provides a lot of guidance when it comes to trying a relocation custody case. The court made it clear that although findings regarding all of the factors are not necessary, they still should be addressed as best practice. If you are someone that is trying to relocate with your children, it is important to note each of these factors and provide evidence supporting your position with regards to each of the factors. For example, find out where your children would be going to school if the court allowed you to relocate. Do some research about the school. Is it a highly ranked school? Do they have opportunities that your children’s current school does not? How does it compare overall to their current school? These are all things that the court should hear in considering the factors.

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

How to Preserve Digital Evidence So a NC Judge Will Actually Use It

North Carolina trial judges are cautious about digital evidence. Screenshots can be fabricated, modified, or taken out of context. To get digital evidence admitted under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901 (Authentication), you must establish its authenticity, completeness, and chain of custody.

Raw Screenshot vs. Forensic Capture

Steps for Lawful, Admissible Digital Evidence Preservation

  1. Capture Complete Screenshots with Context: Do not crop out battery bars, network indicators, contact names, dates, or timestamps. Capture the full conversation thread leading up to and following the key statement.
  2. Export Native Files and Metadata: Where possible, export thread logs directly to PDF or native format (e.g., .eml files for email, .vcf or full carrier logs for SMS). Ensure EXIF metadata (embedded time, location, and device data) remains intact on digital photos.
  3. Obtain Certified Carrier Records: Request official call detail records and text message transmission logs from cellular service providers via subpoena or formal discovery requests.
  4. Maintain a Detailed Evidence Log: Record the date, time, device used, and method of capture for every piece of digital evidence preserved.

Digital Capture Methods Matrix: Legality & Admissibility in NC

The following matrix summarizes common methods of capturing digital evidence in North Carolina family law proceedings:

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Evidence in NC Divorce

Is it legal to screenshot my spouse’s texts in NC?

Yes, it is entirely legal to screenshot text messages sent directly to your device or sent within a group thread that includes you. Because you are a party to the communication, you have lawful access to the messages. To ensure admissibility in court, capture complete conversation threads that display the sender’s phone number or contact header, alongside full date and time stamps.

Can I use Life360 data in a NC custody case?

Yes, Life360 or Apple Find My location data can be used in North Carolina custody cases if the account was established mutually and you accessed the location data legally through your own authorized user profile. Location logs can help corroborate or refute claims regarding travel times, missed custody handoffs, or presence at unapproved locations. However, if you secretly log into your spouse’s private account after separation to track them, that data becomes inadmissible and exposes you to legal sanctions.

Is Ring camera footage admissible in NC family court?

Yes, Ring camera and video doorbell footage is routinely admitted in North Carolina family court to document custody exchanges, property damage, or domestic disturbances. Because outdoor entryways and driveways do not carry an expectation of privacy, footage captured by property-mounted cameras is lawful. To introduce Ring footage in trial, you must provide the raw video file, preserve the embedded metadata, and verify the time and date of the recording.

What happens if I put spyware on my spouse’s phone in NC?

Installing spyware, keyloggers, or hidden tracking software on a spouse’s phone is a crime in North Carolina under the NC Wiretap Act (N.C.G.S. § 15A-287) and Computer Trespass laws (N.C.G.S. § 14-458), as well as federal wiretap statutes. Any evidence obtained through spyware is strictly inadmissible in family court. Furthermore, the spouse who installed the spyware faces potential felony charges, mandatory payment of opposing attorney fees, and severe loss of credibility with the judge in custody and financial rulings.

How do I prove digital evidence is authentic in a North Carolina court?

Under North Carolina Rule of Evidence 901, you prove digital evidence is authentic by demonstrating that the evidence is what you claim it to be. This requires showing a clear chain of custody, providing unedited files containing native metadata, cross-referencing screenshots with official cellular carrier billing statements, or presenting witness testimony from the individual who captured or received the transmission.

Take Control of Your Digital Strategy Today

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  • Download the Homewrecker Evidence Guide
  • Learn exactly how to audit your digital privacy, disconnect shared family accounts safely, and archive text messages for your legal team without violating state or federal privacy statutes.

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