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Question: Dear Cape Fear Family Law: Do I need to file for separation? How is that different from divorce? -Don’t Understand
December 4, 2014
Do I Need To File For Separation

Separation vs. Divorce

Question:

Dear Cape Fear Family Law:

Do I need to file for separation?  How is that different from divorce?

-Don’t Understand

Answer:

Dear Don’t Understand:

Separation is the date you and your spouse start to live separately – not in separate rooms in the same house, but in different homes.  Divorce is the legal end to the marriage, which you can file for 1 day and 1 year after the date of separation.  The issues of post separation support, alimony, and property division need to occur prior to divorce, or the rights are lost.  Forever lost!  If you want to keep your attorney fees and costs to a minimum, try to resolve things through a Separation Agreement or through the courts as close to the separation date as before.  Talk to an attorney about your options and get moving.

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Janet L. Gemmell
Practicing law for over 20 years may have caused Janet some gray hairs, but she remains young at heart, probably because she loves what she does. Janet's focus is to work with clients building new lives after relationship turmoil and although it is hard work, she finds it utterly rewarding. Such work and experiences gives Janet a ton of insight and along with her legal knowledge (afterall she is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist) she is able to get to the heart of any legal matter quickly in order to start helping clients find resolutions and to get their lives back on track.

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